How do I deal with my wife's infidelity?

My wife and I are swingers. We like to frequent orgies on our time off from our busy schedule which includes our professional lives, our children, etc. Anyway, my problem is not her having with other men. We have strict rules, such as wearing condoms, getting tested regularly, no developing emotional connections with our multiple partners. The swinging is fine as long these rules are followed. Another rule is NEVER EVER exchanging energy. We are pranic healers and consider this and getting involved emotionally to be the worst form of cheating. Last night, we were attending our friends Suzie and Jonathan swinging party. I was having with his wife, and he was having it with mine. The problem is as I finished I turned around and watched my wife Angela exchanging lots of energy with Jonathan. I even got up to scan it and it was monstrous and had an ugly cheating color when I closed my eyes. After they finished, I left hurt with knots in my stomach, and I was not able to look at my wife. She confronted me all confused and so I told her what the problem was. I then told her that is it so wrong that she shares her energy with other men when I have trained myself not to come when having relations with other women. It took me a while to learn to recycle my come. I reserve this only for my wife who I am devoted to and love beyond explanation. What my wife did is she let him her pranic bubble that she is supposed to put on before swinging and really did exchange energy with him. She cannot deny this because I scanned it. What hurts more is that she is lying when she knows I am a pranic master and can easily detect these kinds of things. SO please, how do you deal with infidelity in a marriage? How can it be repaired. I could never leave her and our children. Thanks!